|About the Book|
Do you ever feel that you are the sole reason your current relationshiphas sustained until now? Do you ever feel as if you are the only thingkeeping your partner from self-destructing due to illness or addiction?Do you ever feel like your partnerMoreDo you ever feel that you are the sole reason your current relationshiphas sustained until now? Do you ever feel as if you are the only thingkeeping your partner from self-destructing due to illness or addiction?Do you ever feel like your partner would be unable to survive withoutyou to care for them and their mental or physical needs? Do you everfeel that as a result of your relationship with your partner, youyourself have become negatively addicted to harmful substances such ascigarettes, alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, drugs, or sleeping pills- or toharmful behavior’s such as torture, masochism, poverty, hoarding orisolation?If any of these ring true in regards to your current or pastrelationships, then perhaps the root of your struggles lies within theflawed manner in which you view your relationships. That is, perhaps,your relationship is a co-dependent relationship. Many of us today feelthat helping our loved one get their next high, their next drink, or apack of smokes is a small price to pay in return for their company.Rather than stepping up and repairing the damage this behavior causes,we continue to feed the behavior…in the name of love.In the process, we also end up realizing that our dependency is sostrong that it is impossible to breathe without the other. Often, evenafter the partner gets professional help the co-dependent is left topick up the pieces for the rest of his/her life. If you find yourself insuch a relationship, the answers you see lie in the pages of this book.Here you’ll find tools to resolve issues of co-dependency for both youand your partner. This book aims to provide professional help for theco-dependents through real-life examples, incidents, techniques,resolutions and solutions to heal yourselves and your relationshipsproperly. I myself have been a partner in co-dependent relationships andhave struggled through misguided attempts to resolve my relationshipproblems. It is because of this that I have attempted to put togetherthis book to guide you down the healing path.I hope that through my experiences to share the tools needed toescape the co-dependent cycle and move beyond the meaninglessrelationships of the past where the tendency to enable our partnersdestructive habits places us in a position of emotional servitude. Iwish each and every one of you to find the love for yourself that allowsyou to become a healthy loving partner in the future.